As We Get Older

I often sit and wonder why life is the way it is. As we get older, why do people think we must settle down. Why it is harder to find new friends, why is it tough to find someone to care about us as much as we care about them? Why do we not settle for one person, thinking we are settling and hoping the right one is just around the corner.

I have been divorced more than 7 years now. In that time, I met and fell in love with someone that broke my heart. I have gotten over it. I learned to deal with the fact, we were not meant to be together. I have moved on. However, I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.

I have a ton of things to offer. I am cultured, kind, honest, loving, independent and the list goes on and on and on. Is it because I don't fit the mold of what men want on their arms on Saturday evening while out to dinner. No, you are right, I am not tall and thin. I am a healthy girl with a huge heart. I have done a lot of soul searching. I have realized men are arrogant, selfish, and not the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree.

Well, before I dig myself too big of a hole. I will stop here. I know, I can type anything I want because this is my blog. But, I choose not too. This is who I am. Either love me for me, or move on. Simple as that.